Shiva, who is worshipped in the lingam form, evokes images of Rudra, the angry destroyer, of Maheshwara, the serene meditator and even Nataraja, whose cosmic dance enthrals the three worlds. Though celebrated as Ardhanareeshwara, the image of Shiva does not usually evoke the feminine form. Contrary to this common perception is the legend of Thaayumaanavar
Shiva, who is worshipped in the lingam form, evokes images of Rudra, the angry destroyer, of Maheshwara, the serene meditator and even Nataraja, whose cosmic dance enthrals the three worlds. Though celebrated as Ardhanareeshwara, the image of Shiva does not usually evoke the feminine form.
Contrary to this common perception is the legend of Thaayumaanavar (thaayum-aanavar, translated from Tamil as He who became mother). The legend of Thaayumaanavar is celebrated in the Tevaram, the devotional hymns composed by the Nayanars in the 7th century CE.
The legend tells the story of Ratnavati, a Shiva devotee, living on the banks of the Cauvery. Ratnavati is pregnant and her husband, a merchant, has to travel on work. Since there is no one to take care of her, she sends word to her mother, who lives in a village across the river. It is the rainy season and the mother approaches the river to find it in spate, impossible to ferry across. In the meanwhile, Ratnavati starts having labour pains. In their distress, both mother and daughter pray to Lord Shiva, the mother asking Lord Shiva to take care of her daughter and the daughter praying fervently for her mother.
Moved by her devotion, Lord Shiva takes the form of the aged mother and arrives at Ratnavati’s house, to her delight and relief. The Lord takes care of Ratnavati’s labour and cares for her for a week thereafter. The rains subside and the anxious mother arrives at her daughter’s door, surprised to see mother and child healthy and well taken care of. She narrates her ordeal of being stuck at the other bank to the surprised daughter. They realise that it was none other than Lord Shiva who took the form of the mother to care for his devotee and are overjoyed (a variant of the legend states that when the mother arrived, Lord Shiva was present and gives darshan to them in his original form before disappearing).